Divorce in the UK is sadly prevalent, and the Office for National Statistics claim 42 per cent of marriages end in divorce.
January is the most popular time for unhappy partners to file for divorce, so how can you avoid pushing your marriage over the edge at Christmas?
A UK expert has revealed her top tips for couples to keep strong and argument free.
Best selling author, divorce and break-up coach Sara Davison said: “Well it’s a sad fact that, when we do spend quality time with our partners, any cracks will start to show up. We don’t have the common distractions of daily routine, so we have more time to focus on the relationship.
“Of course, if you have a solid partnership then the festive season is a great opportunity to see more of each other. However, if the foundations are already rocky then this could even be make or break time.”
How to avoid divorce this Christmas
Discuss how to want to celebrate
Sara said: “You and your partner may have different ideas about Christmas. You may want to spend time with family and they may want some quiet time off work to relax.
“Make sure your ideas are aligned to avoid tensions.”
Be smart about money
“Christmas can be an expensive time of year and can be the root of a lot of anxiety,” Sara said.
“Set a budget with your partner in advance that you both agree to and stick to it.”
Make housework light work
Sara said: “Household chores are often a bone of contention over the holidays so make sure you set expectations clearly so everyone know what they are responsible for.
“If you know that you won’t be getting much help around the house plan for that in advance so you can avoid arguments.”
Make time for each other
“It’s an exciting time of year for kids at Christmas so its easy to focus all your attention on them,” Sarah said.
“Make sure you set some time aside for your partner to do something you will both enjoy together, without the kids.”
Factor in the in-laws
Sara said: “Spending time with family is often part of the tradition of Christmas, however it can also be stressful to have extended family around.
“Planning in advance will help you to manage the time carefully so it doesn’t over run or become too much for either of you.”
And staying together could be good for you in the long run, scientists have found.
Marriage could lower the risk of signs and symptoms of dementia developing.
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